Negotiation Skills Guide
Negotiation phases, tactics, mistakes, and salary negotiation tips.
Negotiation Phases
Preparation
Research, define goals, understand other party
Tips: Know your BATNA
Opening
Set tone, establish rapport
Tips: Listen actively, ask questions
Exploration
Understand interests, not positions
Tips: Find common ground
Bargaining
Exchange offers, make concessions
Tips: Give to get, stay principled
Closing
Agree terms, confirm commitment
Tips: Document everything
Negotiation Tactics
Anchor First
Set initial offer to frame range
BATNA
Best Alternative if negotiation fails
Silence
Pause to let other party respond
Good Cop/Bad Cop
Use carefully, can backfire
Time Pressure
Deadlines create urgency
Incremental Concessions
Small moves show flexibility
Common Mistakes
No preparation
Fix: Research thoroughly before meeting
Accepting first offer
Fix: Counter, even if offer is reasonable
Emotional reactions
Fix: Stay calm, focus on objective
Revealing BATNA
Fix: Keep alternatives private
Win-lose mindset
Fix: Seek win-win solutions
Talking too much
Fix: Listen more, ask questions
Salary Negotiation Tips
Research market rate beforehand
Wait for offer before negotiating
Anchor with specific number (not range)
Negotiate total package (not just salary)
Get offer in writing
Practice salary conversation
Negotiation Checklist
1. Research thoroughly (market rates, other party). 2. Define goals (what you want, what you'll accept). 3. Know BATNA (your alternative). 4. Practice key points. 5. Listen actively (understand interests). 6. Stay calm (emotions hurt outcomes). 7. Seek win-win (value for both). 8. Document agreement. 9. Follow up. 10. Review for improvement. Negotiation = preparation + patience + principle.